Everyone says lying is bad and we all need to tell the truth, but telling the truth could be just as bad. Lets think about it, you tell someone that you murdered someone, you could be sentenced to death. You tell someone you had sex with their wife, they could kill you. You tell someone you accidentally ran over their dog, that person could kill you. People kill over the little things. I’m not saying lying is good, im all for telling someone the truth; all i’m saying is that people dont know how to take the truth. That person that slept with your wife? Maybe he didnt know you guys were married and when he found out, he went straight to you to tell you. You dont necessarily need to forgive them, but accept that that person is sincerely sorry and dont do anything rash about it. Sometimes things happen and people dont know how to tell you. But if they do tell you the truth, then accept that that was one of the hardest things they have probably ever done, and be thankful that for once, someone told you the truth.